Larger or Smaller Reward Margins to Select Preferences for LLM Alignment?

Preference learning is critical for aligning large language models (LLMs) with human values, with the quality of preference datasets playing a crucial role in this process. While existing metrics primarily assess data quality based on either explicit or implicit reward margins, they often provide contradictory evaluations for the same data. To address this issue, we propose a new metric of alignment potential, M AP , which quantifies the gap from the model's current implicit reward margin to the target explicit reward margin, thereby estimating the model's potential to align on the preference data. Empirical results demonstrate that training on the data selected by M AP consistently enhances alignment performance, surpassing existing metrics across different base models and optimization objectives. Furthermore, our method can be extended to self-play data generation frameworks, where we use this metric to identify high-quality data within the self-generated content by LLMs. Under this data generation scenario, our method surpasses current state-ofthe-art methods across various training settings and demonstrates continuous improvements with increasing dataset size and training iterations.