Expectation Alignment of Language Models for Real-World User Expectations

Large language models (LLMs) have demonstrated remarkable performance on standard benchmarks, yet it remains largely unexplored whether they truly meet user expectations. Existing evaluation approaches, relying on model heuristics, expert rubrics, or user simulation, fail to capture the diversity and subtlety of real human expectations, causing models to appear competent while misaligning with what users actually seek. We present the first systematic study of user expectations in real-world LLM interactions, proposing a principled procedure to extract semantically rich expectations and introducing EXPECTBENCH, a benchmark grounded in real user expectations. Analyses reveal that current LLMs struggle to satisfy and anticipate what users hope to obtain, highlighting a fundamental source of misalignment. Building on these observations, we propose LENS, a lightweight latent expectation-aware response generation framework. LENS enables models to internalize user expectations and generate better-aligned responses, consistently improving expectation satisfaction and underscoring the importance of explicitly modeling user expectations for realistic human-AI alignment. Code and data are available at https://github.com/MiaomiaoLi2/ expectation-alignment .